10/2/11

8 Ways to be a friend or see your friends.

There are countless ways to create a healthy relationship, but first you must learn to recognize the eight roles friends play in your life. Friends can act as:
  • Builder (motivator)
  • Champion (the one who sings your praises)
  • Collaborator (has similar interests, passions)
  • Companion (always there for you)
  • Energizer (always gives you a boost, makes you laugh)
  • Connector (introduces you to others, widens your circle)
  • Mind Opener (expands your horizons, embraces new ideas)
  • Navigator (helps you make decisions)
Seriously, I am not making that stuff up! The author Tom Rath can elaborate a lot better than I can, in her book Vital Friends: The People You Can't Afford to Live Without. Some friends can fall into more than one of these groups. Not to worry. Either way labels don't count in friendships. However, a very safe tip that I can give is this: Don't put your friends into roles they are not capable of fulfilling - just have lots of friends. This will make everyone a lot happier.

Cheers!

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